Private Custom Home near Lake Whatcom

How to build a new home in a very private location? (at the end of a 2,000 ft long driveway, across a creek, crossing high voltage power line territory, with poor well water options in the neighborhood) Going through almost 4 years of red tape, but finally getting a permit for a custom home. Combining the varying wishes of both owners: craftsman details, some gingerbread, as well as rustic details